Cuba, Page 2.

Part II

Havana is broken, but beautiful.

Every building is missing a piece of it, though you’ll likely find it crumbled on the street below. Each floor has it’s own balcony, where light sheets flutter through an open window. If you look closely or stand and watch for awhile, you’ll see someone show face to just stand and watch the world happen below them. At first glance, the crooked streets look almost the same, but a closer look shows that each alley way in every direction has it’s own personality. Some streets have a little more excitement than others, same with certain doorways and window shops.

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As I shuffled through the crowds, skipping to miss puddles of grease and mud, I instantly lost myself. Curiousity got the best of me, my childhood wonder took over and I let go of any expectations. Even with the sun beaming through the narrow gaps of buildings, I slid my sunglasses to the top of my head so I could properly witness the culture unfolding in front of me. Women, dressed in fitted and almost too small crop tops and tight jeans. Men, lurking along the sidewalk and stopping mid conversation with their hermanos to whistle or even shout (with no shame) “hey, baby!” as I continue walking past without hesitation. Admittedly, it initially caught me off guard and made me uncomfortable, but I quickly learned that Cuba is fuelled by passion and sexual energy. As long as I kept moving, every thing would be fine…

Part III

For a moment, I wondered if life ever stopped in Havana.

Turns out, the streets go quiet in the middle of the night and movement between them is slow moving until the middle of the morning. And even in it’s softer moments, Havana’s poverty manages to bring so much character, and I’m inspired to get moving and wander the streets in search of… something.

I mean, I was on a mission to find Hemingway’s mojito bar – La Bodeguita del Medio. And in a moment of uncertainty on the best way to walk there, I met “Tito” – a young, but gentle kind soul, who’s (as I realized later) main goal every day was to befriend tourists  in return for a few CUC (Cuban tourist currency). Admittedly, I was a sucker – but for the 15 CUC I sacrificed, “Tito” guided me through new streets and brought light to hidden gems for food, cigars, and Cuban history. And of course, he helped me push my way through the bustling crowd of thirsty tourists at La Bodeguita del Medio for a delicious, very much rum-infused mojito.

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I ventured back to the same bar top days later when it was a little less busy and penned a few words in my journal, under the watchful eye of a handsome bartender who smiled while he poured me three heavy mojitos to help put my honest thoughts on paper. It was a special experience, and although he dared me to enjoy at least 7 mojitos just like the great Ernest himself, I politely declined and stumbled off my barstool and back into the deteriorating sidewalks with blushed cheeks and my heart smiling.

At some point throughout my Havana adventure, I switched from mojitos to daquiris. I patiently waited for a spot along the bar at El Floridita and ordered a grapefruit flavoured “Papa Hemingway” daquiri, before opening my journal again. Moments later, I met the handsome, curly-haired blonde American – and we spontaneously shared lunch on an outdoor patio (delicious octopus ravioli paired with a poor excuse for a salad, and mojitos – of course), then spent Valentine’s evening sweatily dancing the night away in front of live, loud Cuban bands at Casa de la Musica in Miramar. Worth the visit, but don’t waste your CUC on the Pina Coladas.

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And at the end of the night, drenched in sweat and trying to rehydrate our systems after countless shots of rum, “the American” stopped me while walking along the Malecon for a kiss under the stars.

Because, after unexpectedly spending Valentines Day with a beautiful stranger in a city thriving with love, lust, and all things related – how could you not wrap it up with an ideal goodnight kiss?

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Cuba, Page 1

Part I

Kissing an almost stranger on the Malecon at sunset was never on my (or his) bucket list. But it happened. With a rainbow of whimsical pink and yellow hues melting into the horizon, the twinkling lights of the city, and the romance that buzzed among other Malecon dwellers – it was one of those ‘perfect’, can’t miss, must do opportunities. A little magical, you could say.

Kind of like the entire Cuba vacation.

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The magic started as soon as we made it through airport security and were thrown into the chaos of Cuban culture. Tropical heat, mixed with quickly spoken Spanish, and dozens of taxi drivers, tour bus leaders, and tourists from all over the world trying to pair up and find their way away from the faded yellow paint of the airport. At this point, it was late and dark and our driver spoke extremely minimal English. For the most part, the drive to our first casa in Varadero was quiet, but somewhere along the way we had a moment – and our well-dressed driver gifted me a traditional Cuban bill equivalent to 3 pesos. My first souvenir: a “welcome to the country I love” gift from the first of many dark and handsome Cuban men I’d encounter over the next 9 days.

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Hours of travelling put us to bed almost instantly upon our arrival. The next morning, we were welcomed to sunshine, deliciously strong coffee, and the gentle smile of a warm host with breakfast: freshly cut papayas and pineapple, ham, cheese, and eggs – that we’d soon learn were staples for every meal of our entire trip. The next night as we laid in bed, our hosts were blowing their speakers listening to Elvis, Billy Joel, and even some of the  sing-along hits from “Grease” until at least 2AM. I’ll admit that Varadero hadn’t blown me away in one day, but if there was one thing I knew, it was that the Cubans knew how to have a good time with a little bit (a lot) of rum and good music playing on full blast.

An entire day of travel, followed by an entire day of mashing Spanish and English together and trying to find transportation between cities and one last place to rest our heads during this vacation had tuckered us out right from the get go. But my world had finally collided with Cuba… and I was excited.

Little did I know that Varadero had nothing on the stories Havana had waiting for me to live.

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Naked.

E: “So, when’s the last time you stripped down to nothing in a room full of strangers?”

ME: …. uh, never?!

I was sitting in Starbucks and it had finally clicked. I mean, E had brought up naked yoga in conversation over a month ago, but I had already inhaled two glasses of wine when I agreed to join her. And now, I was completely sober and class started in half an hour. At this point, I knew I had to go. I really didn’t want to, but I knew there was no way E was going to let me bail without a fight.

And so I went.

Fully dressed with my yoga mat tucked under my arm, I slid open the door of the studio and was welcomed by five middle-aged men scattered across the room, sitting comfortably on their mats sans clothes. They acknowledged my entrance and turned back towards each other, continuing casual conversation about their day and such – naked. No big deal, right? Riiight.

I followed E into the room and she wandered to the front of the class.

The FRONT of the class… WAIT. No. What?!

I mean, I was free to squeeze myself into tight quarters closer to the back, but I needed (wanted) E around for mental support. And so I slowly set up my mat next to hers in the front row and quietly sat down, still in my clothes. I stayed in my clothes, watching everyone else walk into the room and casually shimmy out of their pants, shirts, socks and underwear like it was perfectly normal to do so in front of a group of random people. Eventually, E and I were the only one still wearing clothes.

I looked at E, and she smiled back at me as she slid out of her yoga pants. It was now or never.

And if everyone else was so willing to do get naked, why wasn’t I? What was I so scared of?

I took a deep breath and smiled back at E, then awkwardly undressed down to my skin and focused on finding my zen.

Turns out, naked yoga is just regular yoga without clothes. I’ll fully admit that being in the buff while sharing close space with strangers is a little odd, and downward dogging can be a little uncomfortable at first go – but the truth is that no one cares. There were moments when I’d hold a pose and open my eyes to do a scan of the room. I was curious if anyone was judging me, watching me, picking apart my body the same way I usually do. But no, everyone was focused on their practice and at quick glance, I was the only who had lost focus. Everyone there was present to practice yoga and chill the f*ck out. I decided to do the same, finally. It’s not easy at first, but eventually you learn to stop focusing on the fact that you’re naked, and realize that you’re just stretching and taking care of your body – just like you wanted to; just like everyone else in the room.

Naked yoga threw me way out of my comfort zone. Even though I felt uneasy on the outside, I spent 70 minutes doing my best to find inner peace and can honestly say that I’ve never felt so in tune with myself and my body. With class coming to an end, I lay on my mat and embraced the entire experience: sharing a room with open, honest, unarmed human beings; raw and real. We had embraced vulnerability and more importantly, ourselves – just as we are. Wrinkles, curves, imperfections of every kind – we were still beautiful and at peace in our practice that night. Together.

It was liberating, it was full of love, and definitely one of the best yoga classes I’ve ever done.

The next week, I planted my mat at the front of the room again. Naked yoga with strangers is now one of my favourite ways to spend Sunday evenings.