Upon wrapping up a refreshing conversation with a new friend this week, I was inspired to keep my place at the circular bar when she graciously escaped for another social event that evening. Although I didn’t really need it, the bartender was kind of enough to top off my wine glass, which only encouraged me to sit and enjoy the people filling up the stylish restaurant around me.
I knew the woman was going to be a character by her eccentric wardrobe and the bouquet of vivid tulips she was offering to the duo of handsome bartenders. She was definitely old enough to be my grandmother, but her personality was full of spunk and spirit. A classic martini (apparently her usual) was immediately placed in front of her, followed by a full plate of oysters. She was ecstatic, as I coyly watched her slurp them back in good fashion.
We ended up sharing a delightful conversation about our pride in calling Vancouver our home. Both her and I gushed about how much we both enjoyed the salty, cool ocean air and endless views of mountains and green trees. Since we were seated at the bar of a restaurant well known for bringing the delicious tastes of the ocean to your plate, we discussed our love for fresh seafood – something we missed dearly when we lived in Alberta at some point. She was so enthused to be talking to me, while I was simply stimulated by her positive vibes and vibrant personality.
I eventually left her for another round of drinks with another friend somewhere else. As I left, she ordered her usual bowl of soup – which she encouraged me to try upon my next visit – while the two cute bartenders continued to entertain her and provide her the attention she expected and enjoyed.
Although I was initially hoping I’d be able to spark conversation with a handsome man during my time atop that bar stool, I left smiling after sharing a drink and unique conversation with the spirited woman with the brightly coloured tulips at the seafood bar.
Next time you’re flying solo somewhere, take an hour or two to savour a drink and be open to the company of another exotic individual.
You might learn a thing or two about the world around you, maybe someone might capture your heart and change your day.
Don’t be scared to talk to strangers, and live a little.