Author: Jennifer

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You, Happy.

What is it about your life that gives you a reason to wake up every morning with a smile?
I mean, even if you’re not a morning person (and the sound of your alarm clock makes you want to smash it into a million unfixable pieces), you deserve to wake up with a positive mindset for the rest of your day.

You should look forward to every 24 hour time span ahead of you, even though it may not be the best of them all. If you can drag yourself climb out of bed every morning with motivation and determination to be your best every day – you’re living life, right.

Stop wasting any time being unhappy. You, my friend, deserve better than that. Whatever it is you need to do to get to the happiest you that you can be — go. Do it now.
Make it happen.

 

 

 

 

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Their Story

Upon wrapping up a refreshing conversation with a new friend this week, I was inspired to keep my place at the circular bar when she graciously escaped for another social event that evening. Although I didn’t really need it, the bartender was kind of enough to top off my wine glass, which only encouraged me to sit and enjoy the people filling up the stylish restaurant around me.

I knew the woman was going to be a character by her eccentric wardrobe and the bouquet of vivid tulips she was offering to the duo of handsome bartenders. She was definitely old enough to be my grandmother, but her personality was full of spunk and spirit. A classic martini (apparently her usual) was immediately placed in front of her, followed by a full plate of oysters. She was ecstatic, as I coyly watched her slurp them back in good fashion.

We ended up sharing a delightful conversation about our pride in calling Vancouver our home. Both her and I gushed about how much we both enjoyed the salty, cool ocean air and endless views of mountains and green trees. Since we were seated at the bar of a restaurant well known for bringing the delicious tastes of the ocean to your plate, we discussed our love for fresh seafood – something we missed dearly when we lived in Alberta at some point. She was so enthused to be talking to me, while I was simply stimulated by her positive vibes and vibrant personality.

I eventually left her for another round of drinks with another friend somewhere else. As I left, she ordered her usual bowl of soup – which she encouraged me to try upon my next visit – while the two cute bartenders continued to entertain her and provide her the attention she expected and enjoyed.

Although I was initially hoping I’d be able to spark conversation with a handsome man during my time atop that bar stool, I left smiling after sharing a drink and unique conversation with the spirited woman with the brightly coloured tulips at the seafood bar.

Next time you’re flying solo somewhere, take an hour or two to savour a drink and be open to the company of another exotic individual.

Strawberry Slush

 

You might learn a thing or two about the world around you, maybe someone might capture your heart and change your day.
Don’t be scared to talk to strangers, and live a little.

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Kissing Frogs

I once dated a boy in high school who stole my heart. There was a boy, who won me over and treated me like a princess, and a boy who made me fall in love.

I went once dated a guy with a stellar body and a face that made my heart flutter. I dated this guy who treated me like a queen, showering me with gifts and all his attention. I also dated a guy who made me humble, and opened my eyes to new cultures, adventures, and lifestyles.

Then there was the man who made me believe in fairytales and a future of happily ever after, until he shattered my heart into minuscule pieces (which I’ve almost put back together). Today, I stand alone – gaining strength and embracing my independence – until some sort of modern ‘Prince Charming’ comes along.

This post stems from a conversation that happened only a few weeks ago, when a couple of girlfriends and I sat in a quieter corner of a grungy, local pub discussing life, work, and love. With their long term boyfriends, common-law partners, and soon-to-be husbands, they had no new, exciting gossip to bring to the table – which meant we began discussing my single status and past relationships. My apparent inability to find Mr. Right lead us to relive the past, going through my timeline of love and evaluating the the big mistakes, the misfits, the heart-breakers, and the ones that got away. 

That boy, guy and man I mentioned earlier – could very well all be the same person. I’ll make note that they aren’t, but I won’t tell you exactly how many loves were actually lost up until this point.
So, I’m still in search of Mr. Right and there’s nothing I can do but be okay with that. I mean, I could settle for a Mr. Right Now – but that’s no fun for either party and would likely lead to a life-time of sub-par like for each other. (and I believe that life should be full of true, absolute, passionate love)
I guess the moral of the story is that sometimes, you’ve gotta’ date a few ‘losers’ before you find the one who really wins your heart. And not to sound like a slut or anything, but I definitely plan on kissing a few frogs in order to hopefully find a that Prince somewhere out there.

I mean, I hope he exists. Tell me he exists… please.